hm.....i have no clue. sighs sighs. everyone is going through hard times. it's kinda funny when i come to think of it. when one friend that you keep contact with and is willing to talk to you about their problems, you will be naturally affected. and i suppose that goes for everyone. it's weird that way. i suppose that's what happens when people say you are too understanding. so understanding to the point that you would give the world for their problems would go away. but that is just a very selfish way of looking at it i suppose. hm.... but there are many things that someone doesn't need to say only to observe will let you understand enuff to creat pain at you. but then again.....not many people want to take the time and see the problems