gaining true happiness isn't simply giving something and then being given something in return. that would just be a give and take relationship, would it not? in order to gain true happiness, you must find the right path, and the best type of journey for yourself to travel. Maybe your route is the most travelled path. and then there are others that the less travelled path is the best route. by saying the less travelled path, i am not relating this with the christian path, but the path that you yourself must travel on. there maybe times when you completely doubt yourself. but then in the end, you become reassured of the one thing you completely doubted yourself for.