reality is a bitch...but there's nothing we can do. the only thing we can do is to enjoy what we have now and don't regret what we cannot have.

but then that sounds very hypocritical. i always regret. one thing or the other...but meh...could be worst couldn't it? i mean....i don't consciously regret ne thing...but then i do sometimes not knowing or not thinking that i did. hm. meh. as long as i know i live in the present and not the past....it's all good.