uncommon to popular believe, just because i write about thoughts of loneliness does not mean i am afraid to love. if you say i am afraid to love, what do you think i have between you and i? a bond of friendship is still a bond of love. jsut because friendship does not come in the same box as a boyfriend girlfriend relationship does not mean it is not the samething. do you not have compassion on a friend? do you not have simpathy on a friend? do you not want a friend to be happy? in the same way....is that not how any relationship is? every relationship is based on love.....when you have love in a relationship...everything else just follows.