Saturday, September 04, 2004

Things my Agenda Says....

let' see, i'm bored, so i'll just write some of the stuff my agenda writes to pass the time. keke^^:D:P yupz yupz. my mouth hurts. sighs sighs. oh wellz. it's cause of my retainer....not my missing wisdom tooth!keke^^:D:P

Pushing The PAUSE button

  • Having a problem? Getting Frustrated? Take a brea. Push your mental PAUSE button. Relax. then act - don't reacty.

Sheroes and Heroes

  • If you could spend one hour with any person who ever lived, who would it be? Why that person? What would you ask?

What! It's Due Tomoorow?

  • Ever freak out because you suddenly realize that a huge test is scheduled for tomorrow, and you forgot all about it? How can you avoid this in the future?

Ego MANIAC...

  • Do you need to win? Do you go crazy if you lose? If your ego is dependent on being better than other people, you'll always be insecure. How can you change?

Listening Pitfalls

If you really want to understand, avoid these:

  • spacing out
  • pretend listening
  • selective listening
  • judging
  • advising

Instead, listen to understand. Listen actively! (personally, i find nothing wrong with advising, but that's cause well, i like listen to all they haveta say first and then imply my 2 cents.....but meh.....whatever floats your boat....)

Synergy is

  • Celebrating differences
  • teamwork
  • being open-minded
  • Finding new, better solutions

Synergy is NOT

  • Tolerating differences
  • Working alone
  • Thinking you're always right
  • Compromise

Drawn and Quartered

You need to sharpen all four parts of you...

  • Physical - Body
    Exercise, eating well, sleep, relaxation.
  • Mental - Mind
    Read, learn, write.
  • Emotional - heart
    Relationships, service, laughter.
  • Spiritual - soul
    Keep a journal, meditate, pray, attend church.

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