i know this is a love song sung to like some dude or dudette.....but these lines are always in my head when i'm upset.....

"The trouble with love is, it can tear you up inside. Make your heart believe a lie. It's stronger than your pride. The trouble with love is, it doesn't care how fast you fall, and you can't refuse the call. See, you got no say at all"

and in a sense....this is always my dilema......