well......i just love cat's entries.....and i give credite to her.....this post is hers too. *shivers* hope she doesn't kill me for posting it on my site too.....*shivers* but i know she won't kill me....she just summed up everything that i'm thinking right now soooo well.....i do not have the eloquence to string words in the way she did.....gonna tweak some of the words so it sounds more sabbyish....
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Appearances are not here to stay...
Materialistic grants are not everlasting...
Intelligence does not mean it is ethical...
There have been people in my life that are or were only attracted to materialistic satisfaction...
It is easy to be attracted to someone's appearance, wealth, intelligence or profession...
But as your relationship progresses to the next stage, there must be something more than just surfacial qualities that attracts you to him/her. That is if, you want this relationship to last.
She/he can't look as good as she/he are now forever. Everyone will grow old.
There is no guarantee that she/he will not meet any financial problems...Does this mean when $=0 then Love=0?
She/he may have a good profession, but it does not mean that she/he has a good heart.
She may be dressed with the most up to date fashion needs everytime you see her, he may bring you to dine at the most exquisite restaurants everytime you date...but when in a crisis, and fails to attract you...is it over?
There must be something that still attracts you in a crisis!
Look deeper in a person...people hate to change. A person's personality and character is instilled in her/him since youth...
A person's personality determines how she/he is going to treat you...
A person's character determines how she/he is going to overcome a crisis with you.
When surfacial satisfaction subsides to the bottom of the list, and you get attracted to the person for who he/she is...you will realize, that you will be so much more happier...
I realized that the more I get to know his personality, the more I get attracted to him...
appreciate the beauty of someone...
and you will realize that you will stop judging him/her...and you will be satisfied because you are attracted to him/her for who he/she actually is. not what you want him/her to be...
Have you found someone like that yet?
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