love and sorry

oh....wowwie.....brian's two most despised words because he feels that most people use these terms lightly and inaccurately.

well n e whoo.....love and sorry......i'm not quite sure that when you love someone that you should not need to say sorry. sorry is a term when you feel yourself that you have done something wrong. sorry is an apology for the actions that you had taken ever so lightly or somewhat being insensitive to the other person need and thoughts and character. hopefully through saying sorry, the other person can forgive. i'm not so sure that when you love someone that the person who wronged you or you wronged them doesn't need to say sorry. i'm quite sure that you should say sorry n e ways. i mean, sorry doesn't cause someone to forgive you all the time and it doesn't heal all wounds, but it's a start. without the initiative of it, then well......don't you find it's hard to forgive? if that person truly loved you, they would forgive you if you asked them to. but forgiving isn't always the same with everyone. that's where it creates the problem. some people treat difficulties and whatnot alot different than how you would. and therefore, all these individualistic ideas cause a greater gap between the pursurer in the relationship and the one furthering themself away. every relationship is a give and take process. give and take could simply mean sacrificial relationship. basically, what i'm trying to say is that, without giving up a little of something, there isn't n e thing that you can get. for instance, you are a friend to someone else when you give them your time to listen to all the things that they need to say.

all in all there are just those people that forgive even without the other person saying sorry, but then again, it's hard isn't it? but then there are those people who forgive by first running away with the situation and trying to forget and then facing it when they feel they are ready to face it.

i don't know.......it was probably a song and used as a title....but that's what i feel.....but not everyone is the same way i know. and if i offended n e one, me sorry. just trying to state my point. not everyone understand the ideas that i'm trying to show through my words....but then again.......if i understand what i'm trying to say then that's all good i suppose.......